Rude...
Standoffish...
Serious facial expression...
...Any of these describe your everyday visage? I hope not, because it isn't always the best way to greet someone. Granted most of the people we see on a day-to-day basis we do not even know, but still we are human beings, right?
I know I constantly repeat how I choose not to listen to an MP3 player while riding the train, walking, or any kind of traveling, but that's just me. Being aware of what goes on around my environment, hearing myself think, and occasionally listening in to what others are talking about is what I like to do. So, I choose to carry my smile with me everywhere I go. If I don't have a smile on my face then I'm most likely deep in thought.
You just never know who might walk up to you and start a conversation. It might be a friend you haven't seen in a long time, somebody that recognizes you but you may not necessarily recognize them, or it just might be someone that might be your link to a new job, opportunity, or shared common goal. I prefer to be cordial, but people will be themselves and there's nothing wrong with that.
Cordial greetings should produce affable smiles. If people believe I have a "Cordiality" sign on the top of my forehead I think that's absolutely awesome. I enjoy giving directions, my opinion, and listening to others. It's but another chance to learn something new outside of your normal activities.
When one is no longer able to stop and stand in awe, that is when life is no longer worth living. Would you agree?
Cordial or Standoffish?
I will leave you with a possible scenario. You just never know who you might be next to in the elevator, on the train or waiting to cross the street. A "not so extreme case" may be an individual standing next to you that looks like their day isn't going to get any better. That person might be preparing their very own demise. That night they may commit suicide. What if they whispered something under their breathe and you caught just enough to know something was wrong with that person. Would you entertain a conversation or walk away? Depending on your answer may depend on whether or not that person lives or dies...
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